Stop Baby Boxes Now!

Dangerous, Unethical, Anti-family, Anti-adoptee

An adoptee-centered non-partisan website that serves as an educational source and tool to de-propagandize and deconstruct the Safe Haven Baby Box myth and movement.

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Safe Haven Baby Boxes are dangerous, unethical, anti-family, and anti-adoptee. Here's why.

Baby Boxes in the U.S.

Information about laws, statistics, issues, and locations of baby boxes across the United States. Click on a state for more information.

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KEY: >100 Boxes 25-100 Boxes <25 Boxes No Boxes(but law allows them)

Current State Legislation

Current legislation related to safe haven baby boxes in the United States, including bills to authorize installation of the devices.

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KEY: Active • Enacted • Dead/In Limbo • Session Dates

Featured Essays and Resources

WARNING! This Safe Haven Baby Box Inc Video Can Kill!

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Safe Haven Baby Boxes Inc runs a deeply dangerous video on its website,* YouTube, and other platforms. This video can kill your daughter, your sister, your best friend, your neighbor- -even you.

This video targets teen girls–but ultimately all women– teaching them it is OK to conceal a pregnancy and medically unassisted birth (apparently nearly stress- and mess- free) and then dispose of the evidence by popping the baby in the company’s magic box-in-the-wall-baby- erasing machine. You can walk away safe, healthy and carefree. No one will ever know you had this baby

A Documentary Collection: Safe Haven Baby Boxes v A Safe Place for Newborns. A Scorched Earth Lawsuit

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n January 16, 2024. the baby box company filed suit in Federal Court against the Miami-based traditional safe haven advocacy organization A Safe Haven for Newborns/Gloria Silverio Foundation, its founder and director Nick Silverio, the South Trail Fire Rescue District, and Amy Bollen, its public relations director, accursing them of slander, defamation, and “tortuous interference with contract or business.”…We are therefore dedicating a page to lawsuit coverage. It will include documents, news articles, commentary, and other material related to the case

Sex Outside of Marriage? You’re a Piece of Chewed Up Gum that Nobody Wants. A Message from Pam Stenzel, Safe Haven Baby Box Hotline Coordinator/Counselor

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Her bottom line preached for three decades: if you have sex outside of marriage you will pay for it for the rest of your life, physically mentally, and emotionally…he compared teen girls who had had sex to a nasty piece of chewed-up gum and an old shoe. Who would want them? Twenty years later it’s still her message.

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Latest News and Information

New York State Gets Baby Abandonment Box Bill: Albany is Not Hoosierville.

While other states are closing their sessions for the year, New York plows ahead. We missed the bill drop in Albany a few weeks ago of companion baby box measures…We’ll be watching New York carefully. It could be fun watching Mrs Kelsey attempt to mingle with the Albany gang. Albany is not Hoosierville.

Safe Haven Baby Box Legislative Update, June 5, 2025

The barrage of bills was overwhelming. Now a tiny handful of bills remain active, and some will go nowhere…We send a huge thank you to our friends and colleagues who worked diligently and strategically to kill passage of Safe Haven Baby Box bills throughout the country. You stood hand-in-hand with adopted people, current and future, to stop the baby box abrogation of our civil right to our own birth records, identities, histories, and collective dignity.

Dystopian San Antonio: Anonymously Dumping Your Baby in a Box-in-the-Wall Promotes Social Justice?

Seriously! Can you imagine sitting in jail, pregnant, and being lectured on how to abandon your baby and why should do it? Will migrants waiting to be kicked out of the country momentarily be encouraged to box their “anchor babies” that Texas and US governments so abhor? One never knows in our Abbott-Paxton fiefdom. I love SA, but this Safe Haven Baby Box dump on the city is a huge personal disappointment.

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FAQ: SAFE HAVEN BABY BOXES

All About Baby Boxes

The Safe Haven Baby Box Movement, what's wrong with it, and what's happening today.

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FAQ: STOP BABY BOXES NOW!

What We Are Doing

Who we are, and our opposition to baby boxes.

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FAQ: NEWBORN DISCARD

Infant Abandonment

What is newbord discard, what causes it, and how often does it occur?

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Angelika’s Corner

Safe Haven Baby Box “Surrenders” are “Closed Adoptions!’ Say What?

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Of all the misinformation prevarications, and out-and-out lies that SHBB Inc has propagated about adoption and baby abandonment boxes over the years, the idea that baby boxng is simply a “closed adoption” plan is the greatest. It tells pregnant women and new mothers concerned with adoption privacy issues, as well as the uninformed public, that boxing a baby is a traditional and normal adoption plan

How Dare They! “Mothers of Loss (to Adoption)” Drops Shitbomb on SHBB Inc’s FB page. So Far, Gets Away with It

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…now comes the wonderfully blatant shitbomb dropped by Mothers of Loss (to adoption) a few hours ago, politely camouflaged as a question we all know the answer to. So far it has passed the resident SHBB Inc FB censor. (The SHBB Inc reality show verifies that a staff member vets comments for negativity. ) Maybe she is off on a Thanksgiving holiday.

Baby Box Adoption Surrenders are Dignified?

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What in the world is “dignified” for a mother sneaking around in the middle of the night and sticking a secret baby into a hidy-hole at the fire station and running off? And what kind of dignity does that baby have being ditched, possibly naked (sometimes with a placenta hanging on it or covered in God knows what) with maybe not even a blanket–and certainly no name or history?

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Safe Haven Baby Boxes = Prosperity???

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How in the world does a baby abandonment box “reinforce community prosperity,” unless one is crass enough to suggest that local Poors donate their newborns to local Privilegeds in order to create a higher economic lifestyle for themselves? (It’s not like we haven’t heard that one before!

Safe Haven Baby Boxes Inc Reminds Us Again: Adoptees Don’t Matter. A Disjointed Diatribe

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In other words, (we already know this!) boxed babies, and by extension, adopted people, aren’t part of the Safe Haven Baby Boxes Inc equation and plan other than to serve as window dressing. We are things to be dealt with, to be fixed, to be objectified and fetishized, and then shuffled off to Buffalo reborn invisible and silent. The baby box gangbangers clearly put a lot of work into making us look irrelevant

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